Thursday, April 28, 2011

be careful what you look for...

...anything might find you!

as a young human i distinctly recall being told that looking for a relationship can be quite counterproductive.

i can readily vouch for the truth of such a statement. it's possible i would not be dealing w/current relationship issues had i properly applied this wisdom.

the act of looking for such a thing is often an indication of a need to fill or hide some emptiness within. this essentially manifests socially as an invitation to predators & various episodes of personal misery.

a person who is seeking is far more willing to lower their standards. being tolerant is 1 thing. allowing others to fill your void w/their bullshit is entirely different. there seem to be any number of humans roaming about the planet that will gladly place their bullshit anywhere they can. if having an inner void is unpleasant, how pleasant can it be to have that very same void filled full of bullshit?

exactly...

it is far better to have the void & embrace it than it is to fill it w/bullshit. embracing a void honestly is far more likely to create situations where healthy solutions can be forumulated. sometimes it's just a matter of allowing self to grow & mature.

maturity = closing the gap...

make like it's lovely to live w/a sabetour...

BRIDGE THE GAP
...be universal...

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